1.It's not easy and it's not instantaneous.拉长战线 2.培养新习惯换掉坏习惯魔法打败魔法几乎一半的决定会由习惯做出习惯和自动反应让日常复杂的事变得简单大脑会把能量留空到发明创造上 3.压力等会导致意志力会下降从而做出后悔的选择(规律生活) 4.相信意志力是无限的人比认为意志力有限的人更自律 5.进入改变的三四周左右毅力降低且诱惑会变强;即使过程中松懈了也不要放弃专注于长期目标 6. 立FLAG即使做不到基因促使我们去变得更好 7.吸烟不会上瘾BILIBILI网站入口无法戒烟是因为有习惯功能障碍 8.有个榜样引导效果会更好It's easy to criticize and difficult to be empathic,所以身边人很重要
Find a person who loves you for exactly what you are.Good mood,bad mood,ugly,handsome,what have you,the right person is still gonna think the sun shines out of your ass.That's the kind of person that's worth sticking with. -嗨加大码的朱朱